“Family” isn’t always those to whom we are related by blood,
legal adoption, or marriage. Healthy, functional families are often able to
open their arms wide to include non-relatives; others, however, may have to
escape those blood and legal bonds in order to become part of a unit that will
offer them loving, wholesome, life-giving relationships. Pondering Mark’s
gospel this week in preparation for preaching on it has led me to think of some
films that also redefine family. I’ve listed a trio of them below. None of
these films are overtly religious. (Heck, none of them are even covertly religious!) Nonetheless, each
one illustrates the grace of human relationships that supports and sustains
those involved, through times both good and difficult.
Antonia’s Line (Marleen
Gorris, director; Dutch, 1995) On the last day of her life Antonia recalls the
time she and her teenage daughter returned to her small Dutch village at the
end of World War II. Over time she becomes the de facto matriarch for the
village, bringing relatives and friends both eccentric and ordinary into her
fold, wherein there is room for all but the most wicked among them. This film
won the Oscar for Best Foreign Film in 1995.
MicMacs (Jean-Pierre
Jeunet, director; French, 2009) In this fantastic, surreal movie, a group of societal
misfits, each with his or her own unique talent, have constructed a dwelling
under a garbage dump in a French town. When the central character, a simple,
homeless young man named Bazil is invited to join them, they become his family,
and help him bring down the arms dealers responsible for his father’s death and
his loss of job and home.
My Afternoons with
Margueritte (Jean Becker, director; French, 2011) The illiterate Germain,
whose relationship with his own mother has imploded, meets the elderly widow
Margueritte on a park bench in their small town. As they encounter one another
on a daily basis, she gradually opens him up to the beauty of literature. When
Margueritte’s family decide to put her in a “home”’ some miles away, Germain takes
drastic action to help the older woman regain her independence and enjoyment of
life.
And there are so many others….what films come to mind for you?
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